The Puffy Hair Podcast | Hair Care, Textured Hair, Curly Hair, Multicultural, Cultural Diversity

Shar Roorda
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The Puffy Hair Podcast | Hair Care, Textured Hair, Curly Hair, Multicultural, Cultural Diversity

Have you ever felt missed understood, misplaced, or like you don’t belong in the space you are in? Have you struggled to find a sense of self? Do you feel like no matter how hard you try you’re never going to measure up or fit in ? And you’re not sure if you even want to. Welcome to The Puffy Hair Podcast. Where misfits with brown skin and curly hair rule! Whether you’re a brown person adopted by lighter folk or raised in an interracial family, you belong here. Our upbringing made us hella weird and we’re going to talk about all of it. And learn some cool hair tips along the way. Are you ready to be seen? To belong? To be unapologetically who you were created to be? Join me on this journey to self discovery. Let’s laugh together, let’s cry together, let’s learn to be wholly ourselves right now. Not tomorrow, today. It might be painful, I promise it will be fun, it will definitely be helpful and it could be life changing!

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    All About the Lashes : Erykah's Story

    -Host: Char, Puffy Hair Podcast - Guest: Erykah from Burlington, Iowa - Topic: Lash extensions and personal stories   **Erykah's Adoption Story:**   - Erykah was adopted from South Korea by a couple influenced by the trend of adopting Asian babies. - Her father, initially indifferent, developed a strong bond with her post-adoption. - Discusses the identity nuances of being adopted and especially the dynamics within her family post-divorce and her mother's struggles.   **Lash Extension Discussion:**   - Erykah views lash extensions as a significant confidence booster, essential since her natural lashes are straight and coarse. - Started getting lash extensions in 2017, citing it as one of her best life decisions. - Highlights the addiction and maintenance required for lash extensions, emphasizing the impact on her confidence during the pandemic when she couldn't get them done. - Lash extensions have become a bonding experience and a foundation for her friendship with Char.   **Professional Insights on Lash Extensions:**   - Lashes have growth cycles (baby, midlife, grandpa stages) necessitating regular “fills” every three weeks due to the natural shedding and regrowth cycle. - Importance of getting extensions done by a trained professional to avoid damage. - Not everyone is a suitable candidate for lash extensions, with allergies being a critical consideration.   **Personal Experiences and Perceptions:**   - Erykah discusses the nuances of growing up adopted in Iowa, sharing instances of obliviousness to racism in her youth and a deeper understanding and acceptance of her identity as she grew older. - Shares a pivotal moment of experiencing racism from a basketball coach during middle school and the community’s support in addressing it. - Reflects on family dynamics, her parents' divorce, and her mother's incarceration, emphasizing the complexity of belonging and love in adoptive and biologically related families. - Expresses gratitude for the life and opportunities her adoption provided, despite recognizing the alternative realities that could have existed.   **Conclusion:**   - The episode intertwines discussions on lash extensions with deeper themes of identity, adoption, and the resilience in the face of personal and familial challenges.  - Char and Erykah’s conversation showcases the power of shared experiences in forging connections and the profound impact of seemingly small choices — like getting lash extensions — on one’s journey of self-discovery and confidence.   This note captures the essence of the Puffy Hair Podcast episode featuring Erykah's insights on lash extensions intertwined with her personal journey navigating adoption, identity, and the quest for self-confidence.

    27 min

  2. JAN 11

    Interview With Rosie : The Founder of Lulits Hair Essence

    **Podcast Title:** The puffy Hair Podcast    **Episode:** Special Guest Rosie Daniel   **Host:** Shar   **Guest:** Rosie Daniel, Beauty Product Line Owner   **Introduction:** - Host Shar welcomes listeners and introduces special guest Rosie Daniel, owner of a beauty product line. - They share a laugh about technical difficulties encountered due to a passing train during recording.   **About Rosie Daniel:** - Rosie shares her journey starting her beauty line, "Lulitz," in 2019 from home. - Inspired by her personal struggles with alopecia, Rosie self-educated on hair care solutions. - The turning point came when her daughter was diagnosed with alopecia, which led Rosie to dive deeper into herbal remedies and create her own hair care products.   **Product Highlights:** - Rosie's line consists of 11 carefully selected herbs used across all products, emphasizing natural ingredients without chemicals. - Key products include a versatile hair oil, a rice water product, a deep leave-in conditioner, sugar scrub, and a flaxseed gel among others. - Unique selling propositions include effectiveness, pleasant scents, unisex appeal, and a focus on hair health for various conditions including alopecia and cancer recovery.   **Business Growth and Challenges:** - Rosie discusses the evolution of her business from inception to present. - Key milestones include mentoring from friends, using personal funds from a bingo win to start her business, and adapting her offerings based on customer feedback. - She touches on managerial challenges and the intricacies of working with big retailers like Hy-Vee.   **Giving Back:** - Rosie is passionate about giving back, notably through an after-school club focusing on health care, hygiene, and natural hair care. - She uses her products as part of the program to help improve self-esteem and behavior among children.   **2025 Outlook:** - Rosie shares her excitement for upcoming projects, including hosting Sister Soul Fest in June 2025. - She aims to uplift the community and provide a platform for celebrating women's achievements.   **Personal Favorites and Recommendations:** - Rosie's favorite product is her butter, highlighting its versatility and effectiveness. - Discusses preferred hairstyles for men and women, showing a broad appreciation for different looks.   **Conclusion:** - Shar closes the episode with thanks to Rosie for sharing her story and insights. - Reminders for listeners to check the show notes for links to Rosie's products and further information.   **Contact Information:** - Rosie's products are available at various outlets including Hy-Vee, Tri-City Clothing, and online.   ---https://www.lulitshairessence.com/

    31 min

  3. JAN 3

    Renaldo's Hair Care Journey

    ### Show Notes: The Puffy Hair Podcast - On-Air Consultation with Renaldo   **Introduction:** - Host: Shar - Guest: Renaldo - Episode Theme: A constructive consultation experience between a stylist and client, featuring a mix of personal stories and professional advice on hair care and growth.   **Renaldo’s Journey and Goals:** - Renaldo, an individual with a diverse background in sports, fashion, and business, steps into a new avenue by focusing on hair care. - He aims for continuous improvement and desires to learn more about nurturing his natural, curly hair to promote growth.   **Cultural and Genetic Influences:** - Renaldo shares his rich cultural heritage, highlighting Puerto Rican and Native American ancestries, which contribute to his unique hair texture. - His family history, particularly his grandmother’s Blackfoot Native American roots, plays a significant role in his hair’s characteristics.   **Hair Care Practices:** - Renaldo emphasizes minimal use of chemicals, preferring natural methods to maintain his hair’s health. - Discussion on the importance of moisture, regular washing, and conditioning routines to foster a healthy scalp and hair growth.   **Understanding Hair Types:** - A brief overview of the hair typing system, including a comparison between Renaldo’s hair and the defined categories, loosely placing him around type 4b or 4c. - The conversation touches on the cultural and subjective nature of hair typing, while acknowledging its usefulness for categorizing curl patterns.   **Challenges and Changes:** - Renaldo recounts his previous experience of growing his hair out, the decision to cut it for corporate responsibilities, and the struggle to achieve the same growth subsequently. - Factors such as increased stress, lifestyle changes, and perhaps age are considered as influencing hair health and growth dynamics.   **Actionable Advice and Future Directions:** - Recommendations for hair care include maintaining a healthy diet, managing stress, exploring suitable hair products, and possibly incorporating vitamins specific to hair health. - The idea of locking the hair as a new journey and a nod towards embracing and adapting to changes in hair condition and personal life.   **Personal Reflections and Motivation:** - Renaldo shares insights into his personal life, discussing the balance between work, family, and self-care. - His positive outlook and adaptability shine through as central themes, especially when discussing strategies to accommodate the evolving nature of his hair and overall well-being.   **Conclusion:** - Renaldo’s story serves as a compelling narrative on hair growth and care, interwoven with aspects of identity, heritage, and personal development. - The episode encourages listeners to approach hair care holistically, considering genetic makeup, lifestyle choices, and personal goals.   **Extra:** - Mention of Renaldo’s clothing brand, "Foreign Gents," highlighting its significance and background story. - A reflection on the importance of community, connection, and how shared interests, such as a love for hair care, can bring people together.   *Listeners can find more about Renaldo’s brand "Foreign Gents" through the link provided .* https://www.instagram.com/foreign.gents/profilecard/?igsh=MWFrZ25pc3NjdG4xdg== ---   This podcast episode provides a rich platform for listeners to explore hair care through the lens of personal experiences, cultural heritage, and professional advice, making it a valuable resource for anyone looking to enhance their hair care routine or simply enjoy engaging stories with meaningful insights.

    21 min

  4. 12/27/2024

    New Year, New Hair: Things to Consider to Update Your Hair

    - Welcome to the Puffy Hair Podcast. - Shar discusses the excitement of changing hairstyles for the New Year. - A light-hearted beginning with Shar mentioning enjoying pumpkin pie and a strawberry margarita.   **Main Discussion:** - **New Year's Resolutions & Hairstyles:** Emphasizing setting obtainable goals for trying something new with hair. - **Self-Reflection:** Encourages listeners to think about their hair's current condition and personal style preference. - **Practical Considerations:**      - Time and money investment.     - Influence of hair texture and face shape.     - Lifestyle factors, including gym routines and workplace restrictions. - **Inspiration Sources:**      - Suggests gathering pictures and considering past hairstyles.     - Importance of looking at peers for age-appropriate styles.      **Hairdresser Relationships:** - Shar stresses the importance of having a communicative relationship with your hairdresser. - Encourages listeners to seek a stylist who stays current and proactive in suggesting styles. - Discusses the potential need to switch stylists for better advice and suggestions.   **Making Changes:** - Talks about the importance of gradual change and listening to professional advice. - Shares anecdotes to highlight common hesitations and reassurances regarding hairstyle changes.   **Conclusion:** - Reflects on the idea that hair always grows back, likening hair experimentation to the trial and error of inventing. - Mentions a brief acknowledgment of Lewis Howard Latimer's contributions to the lightbulb invention, teasing a potential future podcast topic. - Summarizes the importance of finding a hairstyle that is both appealing and practical for one's lifestyle.   ---   Shar's dialogue seamlessly combines personal anecdotes, practical advice, and historical tidbits, allowing listeners to feel both educated and entertained. The episode emphasizes the empowerment found in trying new hairstyles while highlighting the logistical and emotional factors to consider.

    14 min

  5. 12/20/2024

    Clapbacks & Cheers - Conquering Holiday Hair Haters

    Welcome to the most magical yet potentially challenging time of the year – holiday season. It's Shar here, guiding you through navigating those awkward family dinners with a head full of snappy comebacks for any unsolicited comments about your magnificent mane. In this episode, we're armor up with words sharper than any scissors, ready to trim down any negativity tossed our way about our hair, or frankly, any part of our identity.   **In This Episode:**   **Unwanted Comments Be Gone:** Shar dives into tackling those inevitable and often awkward remarks about changes in our appearance – with a focus on our hair. The holiday season should be filled with joy, not dodging verbal bullets about our looks.   **Holiday Giveaway:** Stick around for a special segment where you could win some cool stuff. Participation details to follow.   **Family Matters...Or Does It?:** Shar shares a personal journey of cutting ties with a toxic family member. This year, she's rewriting her holiday narrative and empowers you to do the same if you're facing similar challenges. There's strength in choosing peace over tradition.   **Clapback Academy:** Gear up with a arsenal of comebacks fit for any remark. Whether it's deflecting ignorance with humor, invoking self-reflection in the offender, or simply standing your ground with grace, we've got you covered. Examples include:    - "**Flag on the Play**": Pointing out offensive remarks without escalation.    - "**I wonder why you feel comfortable saying that to me.**": Making them question their own biases.    - "**I don’t get it? Can you explain that joke?**": Highlighting the absurdity of their "humor".    - And several more tailored responses to shut down disrespectful banter.   **Community Support:** The episode emphasizes the importance of not bearing the burden of addressing racism or any form of discrimination alone. It's a call to allies and loved ones to step up and share the responsibility.   **Giveaway Details:** Learn how to participate in our holiday contest for a chance to win a Mizani holiday gift set. Head over to the Puffy Hair Podcast Facebook page for more details.   **Celebrating Success:** Before we part ways, we celebrate a milestone – climbing into the top 5% of all podcasts online. A heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, for making this possible.   **Final Thoughts:**   This episode isn't just about surviving the holidays; it's about thriving, embracing our identity, and standing tall against any comments that try to bring us down. Remember, your beauty isn't up for debate.   **Happy Holidays from the Puffy Hair Podcast Team!** We're not just a community; we're a family, growing stronger and more resilient together. See you next year for more empowering conversations.   **Don’t Forget:** - Participate in our giveaway on the **Puffy Hair Podcast Facebook page**. - Join our conversation and share your own clapback stories. We're all in this together.   **Happy Holidays, and here's to a New Year filled with love, peace, and fantastic hair days!**

    17 min

  6. 12/13/2024

    Unraveling the Knots: Addressing Interracial Parenthood and Social Perceptions in a Digital Era

    **Podcast Title:** Puffy Hair Podcast   **Episode Host:** Shar   **Theme:** Unpacking the Trend of Praising Basic Parenting Duties in Interracial Families and the Underlying White Saviorism   **Key Points Discussed:**   **Opening Remarks:**      - Shar kicks off the episode with a lighthearted touch, sharing her personal social media browsing habits and setting the stage for a serious discussion.   **Social Media Trends:**      - Highlighted the increase in videos showcasing white parents managing their black children's hair.    - Shar expresses disturbance not at the content of the videos but at the disproportionate praise in the comments for basic parenting duties.   **Personal Insights and Anecdotes:**      - Shar shares her own experiences with interracial family dynamics and her concerns over the skewed appreciation of white parents doing basic hair care tasks for their black children.    - Detailed recount of a professional salon episode emphasizing the lack of skill in handling black hair, leading to wider discussion on standards of beauty and care.   **Critique of White Saviorism:**      - The conversation transitions into a critique of white saviorism, its implications on racial stereotypes, and the true nature of support versus overshadowing.    - Shar discusses the misconception that mastering hair care equates to parental success, challenging this narrative with personal and observed experiences.   **Specific Social Media Example:**      - Shar talks about a particular TikTok family from Cedar Rapids, using their story to illustrate misunderstanding and misrepresentation of black children's needs, particularly regarding hair care and identity.   **The Real-Life Implications:**      - The episode delves into the serious effects of these social media trends and behavioral patterns on children's identity, self-esteem, and understanding of racial dynamics.   **Opposing White Saviorism:**      - Shar presents an alternative approach to celebrating and supporting community-driven standards, empowerment, and real understanding of diverse needs.   **Closing Reflections:**      - The podcast closes with a call to action for more genuine, informed, and equal recognition of basic parenting efforts across all racial lines, highlighting the need to challenge societal biases and expectations.   **Listener Engagement:**   Shar encourages listener participation through comments on Facebook or direct messaging on the Puffy Hair Podcast website, emphasizing community discussion and shared narratives.   **Takeaway Message:**   The episode aims to foster a deeper conversation about societal perceptions, racial biases, and the true meaning of support and assistance across different communities, with a hopeful note on self-care during the holiday season.   **Next Episode Alert:**   Listeners are invited to tune in next Friday for another compelling discussion.   "You are such a good Dad" https://youtu.be/pfltmHtqdzM?si=3GfrhPh4KTugwcGv   Connect with Shar:  www.thepuffyhair.com

    25 min

  7. 12/06/2024

    Exploring the Power of Black-Owned Beauty Brands

    **Welcome to today’s episode**, where we're diving deep into the beauty industry, specifically focusing on the significance and impact of supporting Black-owned haircare and beauty brands. Black women are at the forefront of beauty spending, investing up to $7.5 billion annually, which is double the amount spent by other demographics. Today, we're here to guide you on making smarter, healthier, and more ethical choices in your beauty product selections.   **Today's Highlights:**   - **The Economic Power of Black Women in Beauty**: Discover the substantial influence Black women have in the beauty market and the importance of directing that spending power towards brands that truly understand and cater to their needs.   - **Choosing the Right Products**: We'll discuss what questions to ask when selecting haircare products, including ensuring they are ethically sourced and support Black-owned businesses.   - **The Importance of Supporting Black-Owned Brands**: Learn why it’s crucial to support Black entrepreneurs in the beauty industry, who often create products based on personal experiences and struggles with black hair, leading to innovative and effective solutions.   - **Recognizing Black Entrepreneurship**: Highlighting the success stories of Black-owned brands like Mielle Organics, Pattern by Tracee Ellis Ross, and Beyoncé's Cecred, and discussing the positive impact of supporting emerging Black entrepreneurs in the beauty space.   - **The Truth About Brand Ownership**: We address the importance of researching the real ownership of brands that target the Black community, using examples such as Cantu and Mizani, and encouraging support for truly Black-owned businesses.   - **Balancing Support**: Our host, Shar, shares their approach to balancing the support between Black-owned brands and broader market options, explaining the rationale behind their product selections, including local and non-Black-owned brands.   - **Holiday Shopping Reminder**: As the holidays approach, remember that haircare products make fantastic gifts. Check out our link to Shar’s hair shop for some great options that deliver.   **Closing Thoughts**: Supporting Black-owned businesses is more than just a purchase; it's an investment in economic empowerment, innovation, and the future of the beauty industry. We encourage our listeners to make conscious decisions about where they spend their money, not only to look good but to do good.   **Next Episode Tease**: Have specific haircare questions or need advice? Join us next Friday for more insightful discussions. Meanwhile, send your queries to our page at thepuffyhair.com  We can't wait to hear from you!   **Stay connected**: Don’t forget to support Black and shop local! For more beauty insights, tips, and recommendations, tune in every Friday.   ---   Thank you for joining us on this journey towards more mindful, impactful consumption in the beauty industry. We hope today's discussion inspires you to make choices that resonate with your values and contribute to a fairer, more inclusive world. Shop from me  www.vagaro.com/shars

    11 min

  8. 11/29/2024

    Black Friday Deals: Tips on Snagging Your Favorite Afro Hair Tools at a Discount

    **Welcome to Today's Episode!**   Hello, fantastic listeners! Did your day bring you joy and satisfaction? Well, let's add to that happiness with some savvy shopping tips and hair care advice. Brace yourself for a wonderful episode where we explore essential tips for snatching the best Black Friday deals on hair products. Plus, we delve into how to prepare your hair for a protective style this holiday season. Ready to give your wallet and hair some love? Let’s dive in!   **Celebrating Milestones and New Looks:**   - **A Thousand Thank-Yous:** Kicking off today's podcast with a massive shoutout to you, our listeners, for helping us reach 1,000 downloads since our start in August this year. Your engagement, calls, and shares mean the world to us. Here’s to many more milestones together!    - **Twist It Up:** Our host shares a personal hair journey, switching from braids to twists for an easier-to-maintain look this holiday season. Discover a humorous tale of shots on Thirsty Thursday at the salon and tips for choosing your next style or stylist.   **Prepping Your Hair for Protective Styles:**   - **Know Before You Go:** Learn the importance of preparing your hair for braids or twists to avoid unexpected costs and ensure the best results. We cover everything from the necessity of a good wash, conditioner, and the right use of products before your stylist appointment.   **Black Friday Shopping Tips for Hair Enthusiasts:**   - **Gear Up on Tools:** Now's the time to upgrade your hair styling arsenal. We spotlight the Babyliss brand and encourage exploring small businesses this Small Business Saturday for unique finds before diving into Cyber Monday deals.   - **Stock Smart:** Advice on smart shopping for hair growth products and essentials, emphasizing the importance of mindful purchases, especially products with short shelf lives or those requiring refrigeration. Plus, discover how to check the product’s lifespan via batch codes.   **Exclusive Deals and Recommendations:**   - **Wig Wonder:** Considering a wig? We share insights into scoring deals on high-quality wigs, including a special promotion from Maven Hair. Enjoy 30% off plus an additional $40 off your first purchase with Maven, perfect for those seeking versatility and quality in their wig choices.   - **Get the Deal:** Don’t miss out on Maven’s Black Friday promotion. Visit [Maven Hair’s Website](https://mayvenn.com/puffyhair) for 30% off and more on your order. A must-visit for those eyeing a new look with wigs, 360 wigs, and closures.   **Closing Thoughts:**   - **A Heartfelt Thank You:** Once again, we express our deepest gratitude to all our listeners for their support and engagement. Your stories, questions, and shares fuel this podcast's journey.    - **Stay Tuned:** Keep your hair happy and your shopping savvy. Share your Black Friday hauls and hair transformations with us – we love hearing from you!   **Links and Resources:**   - [Check Cosmetic Batch Codes](http://checkcosmetic.net) - [Maven Hair’s Special Offer](https://mayvenn.com/puffyhair)   Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. We hope you’re leaving with your cart full and your hair ready to stun this holiday season. Remember, happiness is a good hair day!

    18 min
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Have you ever felt missed understood, misplaced, or like you don’t belong in the space you are in? Have you struggled to find a sense of self? Do you feel like no matter how hard you try you’re never going to measure up or fit in ? And you’re not sure if you even want to. Welcome to The Puffy Hair Podcast. Where misfits with brown skin and curly hair rule! Whether you’re a brown person adopted by lighter folk or raised in an interracial family, you belong here. Our upbringing made us hella weird and we’re going to talk about all of it. And learn some cool hair tips along the way. Are you ready to be seen? To belong? To be unapologetically who you were created to be? Join me on this journey to self discovery. Let’s laugh together, let’s cry together, let’s learn to be wholly ourselves right now. Not tomorrow, today. It might be painful, I promise it will be fun, it will definitely be helpful and it could be life changing!

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